{"id":1031,"date":"2017-05-19T06:34:23","date_gmt":"2017-05-19T13:34:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ushhost.com\/blog\/?p=1031"},"modified":"2017-05-28T21:43:04","modified_gmt":"2017-05-29T04:43:04","slug":"keeping-your-routine-as-a-homestay-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ushhost.com\/blog\/keeping-your-routine-as-a-homestay-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"Keeping Your Routine as a Homestay Parent"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Everyone has their own unique routine. If you\u2019re about to become a homestay parent, it\u2019s important that you understand how to keep yours once this exciting new experience begins. Fortunately, as you\u2019re about to see, it\u2019s actually really easy to keep your routine as a homestay parent.<\/p>\n<p>Reach Familiarity Quickly<\/p>\n<p>The quicker your family and your international student are comfortable around each other, the sooner you won\u2019t feel the need to be around them at all times making sure they\u2019re happy and comfortable.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.ushhost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/shutterstock_229824916.jpg?resize=1024%2C682&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" class=\"alignleft size-large wp-image-806\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.ushhost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/shutterstock_229824916.jpg?resize=1024%2C682&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.ushhost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/shutterstock_229824916.jpg?resize=375%2C250&amp;ssl=1 375w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.ushhost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/shutterstock_229824916.jpg?w=2000&amp;ssl=1 2000w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.ushhost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/shutterstock_229824916.jpg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><br \/>\nYou don\u2019t want to rush this process, necessarily, but, again, it\u2019s ideal that you get comfortable ASAP.<\/p>\n<p>While every student is different, this will generally be possible with anyone if you modify your routine at first so you can spend more time with them. Family dinner will help with this a lot, but so too will bringing them along when you run errands or do other mundane things. Any time you have an opportunity to talk with your international student, take it.<\/p>\n<p>Communicate. Communicate. Communicate.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of which, once you\u2019re comfortable around each other, you want to take advantage of your open lines of communication and use them often. You can still be a great homestay parent to your student and keep your routine at the same time, you just have to make sure the kid is aware of your plans beforehand.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you might have a busy day where you\u2019ll need to pick them up from school, drop them off at home and then head to a meeting before you come back.<\/p>\n<p>Communication will ensure they understand where they must meet you and at what time so this flows smoothly. Also, because they know you have to quickly drop them off because of a business obligation, you don\u2019t have to worry that they might feel as though you\u2019re brushing them off.<\/p>\n<p>Speak to Your Own Children Beforehand<\/p>\n<p>If you have children of your own, you\u2019ll want to speak with them beforehand about life is going to be like as a homestay family. Their routine is going to change to some degree, too, so it\u2019s best to prepare them well beforehand. As with yours, their routines don\u2019t have to change\u00a0 dramatically.<\/p>\n<p>The type of situation you want to avoid is one in which they see their routine being modified as a sign that you take them for granted or love this new child more.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, they do have to understand that this wonderful experience is only going to be possible if everyone treats it as a group effort. It will definitely be worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Learn to Go with the Flow<\/p>\n<p>As much as it\u2019s possible to keep your routine as a homestay parent, you also need to expect that things aren\u2019t always going to go your way. You\u2019re adding a student to your everyday life. How could you possibly expect nothing to change whatsoever?<\/p>\n<p>That kind of unrealistic expectation is best to avoid altogether. This will make it a lot easier to enjoy this experience with your student.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t Try to Be Perfect<\/p>\n<p>Along the same lines, don\u2019t try to be perfect. Your routine might change a bit. Sometimes, plans will fall through and you\u2019ll come up short on your goals. No one \u2013 including your international student \u2013 expects you to be perfect. If you end up having to order pizza for dinner every now and then, that\u2019s not the end of the world.<\/p>\n<p>Keeping to your routine as a homestay parent is important and possible. While you may need to make some concessions here and there, the above advice should help a lot.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everyone has their own unique routine. If you\u2019re about to become a homestay parent, it\u2019s important that you understand how to keep yours once this exciting new experience begins. Fortunately, as you\u2019re about to see, it\u2019s actually really easy to keep your routine as a homestay parent. 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